Lately, many parents, asked: "Where is my anger come from teenagers?" Adolescents, like adults, experience stress every day. The stubborn and argumentative teen is fighting for independence and less control by his parents. An angry adolescent struggle with the problems and try to give a sense of emotional problems, such as:
Proof of identity, Positive and negative peer pressure, School of requirements, The separation or divorce of parents, To be accused of something that does not, It is not a case for their point of view,Chronic illness or death of a loved one,Taking too many activities and Parents are great expectations.
It is no surprise that our children can be overburdened with stress. Adolescents have poor skills, and more and more angry is the only way to know how to avoid feeling sad, pain, or fear.
Young people have unreasonable expectations, especially if they are used to getting what they want, when they want. If this does not happen, or they realize that things are not always within their control - they are angry.
Their anger can take many forms - some teens may withdraw their anger, while others Defiant, destructive or turn to alcohol and drugs.
Various situations can bring feelings of anger. Parents are often taken by surprise and react to a screaming argument or out, or to punish their kids to show their anger.
Place, parents need to see this show of anger or rage as a signal that their children or is contrary to a situation where they can not manage on their own, or are overwhelmed by the demands of his daily life.
Fortunately parents have many options to help their teens through their frustration and cope with the daily press:
* Ask your teen what unresolved conflict he or she is faced with
* Listen to your tee
* Focus on your feelings
* Understand the situation from your teen perspective
* Help your teen work towards a solution
* Show your child that you care
Unresolved issues can escalate into physical violence, addictions, psychosomatic disorders. This can ruin your life so easy to destroy relationships, thinking and effectively what I'm trying to ruin his future. Professional help for your teen, you, your family and / or, if necessary.
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