Teenagers

intriguing, sometimes incredible, surprisingly, also the way we and our feelings and the different stages of the path of our lives.

We are born, go to school, and entering puberty. This is one of the most beautiful and joyful steps, when you go to the heart of the period in which we childhood to adulthood . Many "NO" to reach, for others it takes much more, and there are not many mature . These are the ones who are still immature for the rest of their lives.

In this phase of childhood to adulthood, also known as "Teen-Ager" phase, the start of changes to note that it seemed impossible to believe earlier. Boys and girls begin to observe sexual attraction to the opposite sex, thinking that a few years ago they used to hate boys and girls boys hated .E 'never crossed our minds that we would see "Kiss", and even hours, think of all this.

We are beginning to form our opinions, they want independence, privacy and ask our parents to "leave us alone." So different when our parents and children around the world.

For many parents - these transitions are so difficult to understand. "What happened to my child and my child, who has always wanted to be by my side, and waited for us with open arms when we arrived home, or collect them from the kindergarten or primary school? What happened to our children, who always wanted to have the weapons in ?

There are many factors that occur in our attitude of children, and we must accept and try to understand, especially during this stage of puberty.

You can not fight, you can also .You must accept this part of life. The only thing we can do is try to understand that they are no longer "children" they have become "mature" and we must treat them as adults.

We should try to be their friends, and they trust in us. We need to win their confidence and give them good advice to a desperate need and can only people who love them most of life their parents.

The only way to reach and able to discuss things with a "Teen-Ager," is to speak with them in their terms not preaching . Speaking of them as a friend, not as a parent, as older, a "Teen-Ager" Even in their place and listen really listen before forming opinions and making a big deal of something.

We should try to let them know that if they have a problem, how deep or serious, will always be there to help them .not to penalize or accuse .This is the only way you will be able to earn their trust and help in every situation. They come to you for advice, and you will be able to give them. Believe me, as a mother of 3 boys, I would like to know what I write about.

Do not forget that very soon they will be parents themselves, and the circle of life repeats itself.

The future of our grandchildren, a lot will depend on how we have treated and taught our children. The recommendations and how we affect their lives, will have a major impact on the way they raise their children.

The examples have experienced with their parents, how their lives and the lives of our future generations.

This has been demonstrated time and again. Many children who come from broken homes, which were abandoned by their parents, who have never known the warmth and the love of a loving family, and none of their direction, most of the sometimes the criminals and a danger to society.